How Do I Know When I Am Ovulating?

How Do I Know When I Am Ovulating?Ovulation occurs once a month, offering healthy fertile couples who are in their twenties and thirties a twelve to twenty-four hour window in which they can conceive. Each monthly opportunity means they have about a twenty percent chance of pregnancy. As you grow older the percentage lowers.

While the egg is viable for twelve to twenty-four hours, the sperm can live for three to six days. This allows them to reach the fallopian tubes and hang out until the mature egg is released from the ovary. This means that you can have sex several days prior to ovulation and still get pregnant; however the ideal time for intercourse is the day you ovulate if you want to have a child.

Because the amount of time each month when you can get pregnant is so short, it is important for you to be able to tell when you are getting ready to ovulate or when ovulation has occurred.

Checking for Ovulation

There are several ways for a woman to check for ovulation. The first is to look at the calendar. This requires you to know how many days are in your menstrual cycle based on counting from the first day of your last period to the day before your period starts the next time. The average menstrual cycle is twenty-eight days, but it can be anywhere from twenty-three to thirty-five days long.

Some women will have varying menstrual cycles. For someone with a twenty-eight day cycle you will ovulate about half way through. If you are planning to get pregnant it is important to track this cycle. Besides, knowing the first day of your last menstrual cycle (LMP) will help the doctor estimate your due date!

There are online ovulation calendars available to help you figure out the window when ovulation should occur based on your cycle. These calendars work better for those with regular cycles, but it can give you a place to start. To use the online ovulation calendar you do need to know the first day of your last period and how many days you have in a typical menstrual cycle.

Use the calendar to know when you should check for other signs of ovulation. Other ways to check for ovulation include:

  • Get to know your body signals and signs. Learn to listen to your body, about twenty percent of women can feel a twinge, a quick sharp pain, or a little lower abdominal cramping that is typically localized on either the right or left side, depending on which side is ovulating. This feeling is called mittelschmerz, which is German for “middle pain.”
  • Check and chart your temperature. Use a basal body thermometer, designed just for this purpose, and take your temperature orally. Basal Body Temperature or BBT is then charted. The reading should occur after you’ve slept at least three hours, first thing in the morning before you sit up, talk, or get out of bed. As fluctuations in your hormone levels occur the temperature will change. Estrogen dominates during the first weeks of your cycle and once ovulation occurs, progesterone increases and your body temperature will rise. The BBT is at the lowest point right at ovulation and then it will go up about half a degree as soon as ovulation occurs. You will need to chart your basal body temperature for several months before you can predict your monthly ovulation.
  • Part of knowing your body and predicting ovulation is to understand how your cervix changes to throughout the menstrual cycle. The cervix is the neck-like passage that goes between your uterus and vagina. The cervix has to open and stretch to make room for the baby’s head during birth. At the start of your menstrual cycle your cervix is positioned low, it is closed, and hard. At the approach of ovulation it softens, pulls up, and opens up a small amount. With practice some women can feel these changes. They are able to check their cervix by inserting one or two fingers. The website beautifulcervix.com has very graphic pictures of what a woman’s cervix looks like throughout the menstrual cycle. Check here for the photos. The changes can be noted on your basal temperature chart.
  • You can also track the change in cervical mucus. As ovulation nears this discharge will become transparent to white in appearance, and is in fact often compared to egg whites. It will be a little slippery and will stretch between your fingers for an inch or two before it breaks. Changes in cervical mucus can also be noted on your fertility chart with basal body temperature and the position and condition of your cervix.
  • There are now Ovulation Predictor Kits or OPKs that will help you tie down ovulation from twelve to twenty-four hours in advance. Much like pregnancy tests, you pee on a stick and the kit checks your hormone levels. For ovulation it is looking for LH levels or Luteinizing Hormone.
  • You can also test your saliva for estrogen levels. This reusable test requires you to use an eyepiece to check for a microscopic pattern that somewhat resembles window frost.

There are other tests that check sweat for a chloride ion surge and other methods. Often women will combine several methods to figure out when they are ovulating. Such as first plotting possibilities on a calendar and then checking temperature, their cervix, saliva, or urine as the projected day approaches.

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Gender Prediction

Gender PredictionIf you are an expectant parent you may be excited to learn the gender of the child you are anxiously awaiting. Some want to know the baby’s sex so they can paint the nursery appropriate colors, or register effectively for the upcoming baby shower. If you know the baby’s gender, you only have to come up with one name instead of figuring out two options.

It is important to note that you can only really learn the baby’s gender by having an amniocentesis or chorionic villus sampling test. These are medically invasive tests that your doctor won’t do without having a sound medical reason other than gender prediction. Ultrasounds are typically done to check on the baby’s and mother’s health at a few points during the pregnancy and if you want to know the baby’s sex you can get a semi-accurate view of whether it’s a boy or a girl. But there have been incidents where even with ultrasound the wrong gender is predicted.

There are tests you can buy online for gender prediction, some of these are blood tests that you send off and wait for results. Just be careful and do some research. These tests can cost up to several hundred dollars and over the years some of them have turned out to be scams.

So if you want to know your baby’s gender and can’t wait until around the eighteenth week of your pregnancy, which is the best time to tell the sex of the child…then we have a few tried and well…not so true gender prediction methods to entertain you while you wait.

Gender Prediction – Generations of Prophesy

Mothers, grandmother, great-grandmothers, and old maiden aunts have been offering their predictions since the dawn of time. You know how it goes, you’re pregnant, showing, and all of a sudden you are swamped with lots of prophetic insight you really didn’t ask for.

Jane down the block says you’re carrying the baby low so it must be a boy, Grandma X says you’re craving chocolate so it must be a girl, and Cousin Fred…who has nine children and has seen it all, says you should mix your early morning urine with Drano, as that is the only true test. Okay, just ugh.

Before you go screaming out into the traffic to get away from Cousin Fred, he does have a point, or thinks he does. There is an “old wives tale” that many people believed, and it uses Drano.

The Really Disgusting Drano Test

While mixing Drano and urine may sound remotely scientific, it really isn’t. Supposedly you use a glass container, because…well Drano will just eat through plastic. Besides, you have to see the results. You put in a little Drano, add a little urine, and then use your stop watch to see how long it takes for the mixture to turn brown. Oh, wait…you can’t do this test until your fourth month of pregnancy.

Actually don’t bother, while you are timing the color change, it’s important to note that nothing in your urine will interact with Drano in a manner that would predict your baby’s gender. And the fumes can’t be good for a pregnant woman, which is why the “directions” for this test specify that it should be done outside. It also warns that there will be a bubbling reaction accompanied by a highly caustic odor when the urine and Drano are mixed.

Okay, we’ve come this far you may as well know the rest…If this caustic odor causing mixture turns “brownish” in color within ten seconds, congratulations you’re having a boy! If it doesn’t darken or change color for ten to fifteen seconds…you are having a girl. Except that just like many traditional gender predictions, this one really doesn’t work.

Chocolate or Pickles, What if It’s Both?

A slightly less disgusting gender prediction is that if you crave sweets like chocolate, sticky buns, or the entire bakery case at the local donut shop, then you will have a girl. The reverse of this predicts that you will have a boy because you crave pickles, lemons, or that really bad sour candy that distorts your face.

Question – what if you crave the traditional pickles and ice cream? Does that mean you’re having twins? Not really, while this can be a little fun, the truth is that a craving is your body and minds way of telling you that you need…something. And scientists have proven that pregnant women really do experience cravings.

It is important to note that most food cravings are harmless; however there are some women who have had cravings for things like dirt and soap. If you have a non-food craving you need to talk to your doctor right away.

Summary

There are more, there are always more…Like the wedding ring that you dangle from a string over your belly. If it circles – girl, side-to-side motion means a boy. If you glow and look fantastic while you are pregnant…girl, no…boy. If you look like a hag…girl, no..boy. Well, there are two versions of this one so I guess you can take your pick.

Actually if you have a minute there is an easier way to do this. You can find a fun online quiz that uses many of the myths to help you determine gender right here.

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First Month of Pregnancy

First Month of PregnancyThe first month of pregnancy actually begins a few weeks before the sperm meets the egg and it is implanted in the uterus. This is because gestational age is used to measure your pregnancy and the timing for this begins on the first day of your last monthly period. The designation for this is LMP or Last Menstrual Period.

Figuring Gestational Age

Typically we think of pregnancy lasting for nine months. But since it is actually measured from the first day of a woman’s last period, which depending on how long her menstrual cycles last can actually be as much as four weeks before she becomes pregnant, the process can get a little confusing.

In gestational age a full-term pregnancy is typically forty weeks from LMP. This translates to about ten months. Often women can’t remember the exact date their period started, this is why gestational age is often determined by an ultrasound at the beginning of the pregnancy.

Pregnancy – First Month

Pregnancy, the signs and symptoms for the woman and development of the fetus, is separated and talked about according to trimesters. This is basically a period of three months or just a little longer than thirteen weeks each. The first month of pregnancy is therefore at the beginning of the first of three trimesters.

Several days of weeks one and two of this first month are generally taken up by the woman’s menstrual period. At the end of this time period she will ovulate, meaning that a developed egg is let go from the ovary to travel down the fallopian tube with the end goal being the woman’s uterus. Women’s menstrual cycles can vary in length but the average is twenty-eight days. The length of menstrual cycle will determine when you ovulate, which is typically ten to nineteen days from the first day of your period if you have a twenty-eight to thirty-two day cycle. A woman has a better chance of getting pregnant during the six days that lead up to ovulation.

During the third and fourth week of pregnancy the single-celled fertilized egg is busy dividing, creating more cells. It will typically take from three to four days from fertilization to reach the uterus. The fetus at this time may hover in the uterus for another few days before it implants or attaches to the uterine lining. This implantation typically happens about six days after fertilization and the process can take several days before it is complete. About half of all fertilized eggs will implant and grow. The other half will pass from the woman’s body during their next regular menstrual cycle before implantation occurs.

Fetus Development – First Month

For the first couple weeks of this first month there is no fetus. The woman’s body is preparing itself, and the egg and sperm have yet to come together. About two weeks after your period started, conception occurs. The doctor will determine your due date by counting forty weeks from the date your last period started, even though your weren’t pregnant at that time.

By the third week, fertilization has probably occurred. Once the sperm and egg combine it is called a zygote. This is a one-celled entity and if your ovaries released more than one egg you may have multiple zygotes within your fallopian tubes.

You can check pictures of fetal development by week here.

Zygotes will get twenty-three chromosomes from you and twenty-three from your partner, for a total of forty-six. These chromosomes have already configured the baby’s sex, and personal traits like color of hair and eyes. These chromosomes will also help determine other aspects like intelligence and personality to some extent.

Once formed, the zygote will move through the fallopian tube, headed towards the uterus. As it moves the single cell will divide and those cells will divide until it rapidly forms a small ball that is said to resemble a very small raspberry. Within this tiny cluster is an inner group of cells that will eventually form the embryo, the cell grouping on the outside of the ball with ultimately be transformed into membranes that will protect and feed the embryo if it implants in the uttering lining.

At about the fourth week this small zygote has reached the uterus and is called a blastocyst. It has fully separated into the two parts that will become embryo and membranes. If it comes in contact with the uterine wall it will burrow in, implanting itself for nourishment. At this time the placenta begins to form and will nourish the baby from now until the baby is born.

The fifth week of pregnancy is actually about the third week after conception. During this time the baby’s brain, heart, spinal column, and other organs will start to form. This is known as the start of the embryonic period. The embryo is now comprised of three layers which include:

  • The ectoderm is the top layer and will eventually form the skin, eyes, inner ear, both the central and peripheral nervous system, and much of the connective tissues.
  • The mesoderm or middle layer of cells will begin to form the baby’s heart, circulatory system, bones, muscles, most of the reproductive system, and the kidney’s.
  • The endoderm is the inner layer of cells and responsible for forming a tube lined with mucus membranes that will ultimately form the baby’s lungs, bladder, and intestines.

At the end of this fifth week the fetus is about the size of a pen tip.

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